So I'm not sure if this is going to help but on Letterboxed (movie review site) there's this guy who made a list of "VHS I Still Own" and what caught my eye was he listed Children Of Loneliness. I asked him about it and sadly never got a response, he ended up actually deleting my comment as well.
So far, we don't have any evidence of it having a VHS release. I don't know how Letterboxd fills their catalogue. The user may have confused it with the German film The Third Sex, also known as Different from You and Me. That film had a DVD release in 2006. It's possible there might be other discrepancies in the user's list.
Currently, my guess is that Letterboxd takes its information from other databases, like IMDB, but might create its own summaries and graphics. I'm basing this assumption off of their listing for the film Talking About the Weather, which I helped recover. That movie never had a home release. It was shown at a film festival in 1994, and the people who worked on it were given VHS copies, but it was never properly distributed.
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