I'm planning on opening a new Instagram account where I post my own photos and videos of one of my interests, but I will disable comments. I think I heard that there is a way to disable likes. If there is, I will disable those too.
This gallery will be for myself and to delight people.
Do it! I had that epiphany last year. I started turning my Instagram into a personal photo album of my life's moments and adventures. I couldn't care less about likes or followers, and I especially couldn't care less for the flame wars over politics that go on. I use Instagram as a way to showcase photography which has become a passion of mine recently.
Awesome to have that outlet for photography!!! I worked in education for a bit, and they definitely advised us to "lock down" our social media's privacy settings to the nth degree. I have heard of teachers basically having a public and private profile (or more), and more often than not, the extra profile serves as a hobby outlet of some type And yeah. I used to post memes, "funny" stuff, inspirational quotes, foreign language stuff, Bible verses, random hobby photos, etc. and then one day I was just like...WHY. Sure I MIGHT get a few likes but...WHY? What was the point? Now my Insta is basically only "real life" photos at this point.
Post by extremewreck2000 on Jun 30, 2024 4:07:40 GMT
Honestly I have moments where I question if I should just abandon all of my accounts on various websites & just never be seen again, becoming nothing more than just some udder rando online & still be some rando in real life. I know that would mean that various subjects that would otherwise not be talked about around here(like Atari & Commodore games), but still. I think I might need to get back to just focusing on my YouTube channel for a little while because at least over there I was happy with what I was doing & was lucky to get 50 viewers on a video.
Dreams are boundless, imaginations are infinite, space is a multi-directional spiral & Akazukin ChaCha is my favorite anime
Same, but replace Discord with the very rare(as in, a 1/500,000 chance) visit on Reddit.
Reddit is a minefield and I avoid it unless Google forces it upon me, as it often does nowadays...
At one point I was thinking of being active on Reddit and Quora, but I ran into the same problems like with other social media apps. I was getting addicted to them too.
A furry with eclectic tastes who loves the 80s and 90s. Mostly 1984-1992.
Post by Etienne_LeLoupChien on Jun 30, 2024 15:22:19 GMT
At this point in my life, I rather have a small circle of close friends to go out and do things together more frequently than to ever try to become "popular" online.
I do have some friends, but we don't get to hang out often because we live in a city that is very spread out. So much urban sprawl.
I only use Discord, YouTube and a couple of forums like this place. It's been very hopeful for me.
I think forums are just built different than social media, mainly because of PINGS from others who actually share your interests on shared spaces. My social media isn't bad but like...a number of people I once hung out with have moved onto "other things" or "other endeavors." Not to mention, awkward comments, political grandstanding, echo chambers, etc. As a 30+ aged individual, I feel embarrassed to post about say, a new fan translation of a visual novel series, when I know my hyper conservative relatives will see it. But I'm comfortable posting about that here. Not to mention, I can actually discuss more debatable or ambiguous stuff here without my relatives/friends/colleagues going bananas. I can also share my experience without it being invalidated by relatives/authority figures who supposedly "remember different" :/
Here, if you make a post, chances are someone somewhere has something of interest to share about it. And that's pretty cool.
At this point in my life, I rather have a small circle of close friends to go out and do things together more frequently than to ever try to become "popular" online.
I do have some friends, but we don't get to hang out often because we live in a city that is very spread out. So much urban sprawl.
Yeah that's one of the sad things about life here in the Southeast USA. Driving is a must but also a PAIN, and there's so few places to walk freely and gather compared to overseas. Traffic SUCKS, you have to revolve your entire life around it, and it's getting to be worse and worse every year to the point that new infrastructure being built barely makes a dent. I can remember cafes, theme restaurants, malls, libraries, etc. all within walking distance of where I lived abroad. Meanwhile, it feels like such an endeavor sometimes to just go hang out anywhere here.
There has been something of a trend toward more walkable communities, and I even got to live in one at a time, but unfortunately, it's also SUPER competitive. College towns can sometimes work out better, but again, COMPETITION. And even then, the college towns feel so much SMALLER and more limited compared to overseas, unless said college is in a big city.
Good for you on finding that circle of friends and making time to hang out regardless. I have read a recent article on more people ditching dating apps to try to "organically" meet people, which hopefully works out considering the lack of third spaces these days (at least ones that aren't prohibitively expensive). Since "bars" feel like the main hobby in a lot of places and good lord, is that NOT my jam. UGH.
Honestly I have moments where I question if I should just abandon all of my accounts on various websites & just never be seen again, becoming nothing more than just some udder rando online & still be some rando in real life. I know that would mean that various subjects that would otherwise not be talked about around here(like Atari & Commodore games), but still. I think I might need to get back to just focusing on my YouTube channel for a little while because at least over there I was happy with what I was doing & was lucky to get 50 viewers on a video.
I mean, you do you, friend. Social media is MEANT to be social, but it doesn't always turn out to be social for everyone. I always think of that Bible verse that states that while everything is permissible, NOT everything is beneficial (paraphrased, and hyperbolic, but still).
I originally created this thread with that very question-"have you decided to scale back on or delete social media?" I have joined a few forums and other sites only to BARELY use them, just because they weren't my "jam" after all and that's okay. Will be rooting for you regardless of what you choose! It was very interesting to go from an internet that was mostly anonymous to one that is mostly now "known" due to the massive influence of modern social media. There was a certain comfort in that anonymity for sure. Vs. today everything being linked back to people's public (or sometimes even private) socials. Which isn't always kosher.
I only use Discord, YouTube and a couple of forums like this place. It's been very hopeful for me.
I think forums are just built different than social media, mainly because of PINGS from others who actually share your interests on shared spaces. My social media isn't bad but like...a number of people I once hung out with have moved onto "other things" or "other endeavors." Not to mention, awkward comments, political grandstanding, echo chambers, etc. As a 30+ aged individual, I feel embarrassed to post about say, a new fan translation of a visual novel series, when I know my hyper conservative relatives will see it. But I'm comfortable posting about that here. Not to mention, I can actually discuss more debatable or ambiguous stuff here without my relatives/friends/colleagues going bananas. I can also share my experience without it being invalidated by relatives/authority figures who supposedly "remember different" :/
Here, if you make a post, chances are someone somewhere has something of interest to share about it. And that's pretty cool.
Your relatives know which websites you post on? My parents don't know which sites i'm on and I like to keep it that way.
I think forums are just built different than social media, mainly because of PINGS from others who actually share your interests on shared spaces. My social media isn't bad but like...a number of people I once hung out with have moved onto "other things" or "other endeavors." Not to mention, awkward comments, political grandstanding, echo chambers, etc. As a 30+ aged individual, I feel embarrassed to post about say, a new fan translation of a visual novel series, when I know my hyper conservative relatives will see it. But I'm comfortable posting about that here. Not to mention, I can actually discuss more debatable or ambiguous stuff here without my relatives/friends/colleagues going bananas. I can also share my experience without it being invalidated by relatives/authority figures who supposedly "remember different" :/
Here, if you make a post, chances are someone somewhere has something of interest to share about it. And that's pretty cool.
Your relatives know which websites you post on? My parents don't know which sites i'm on and I like to keep it that way.
Only the "main ones" (FB and Insta) thankfully. They definitely have no clue about my "other online shenanigans" XD But those profiles were built up a couple of years, if not over a decade ago, and I don't feel like getting rid of them at this point. I have too many people I DO care about, I just don't spend nearly as much time as I used to on them.
Post by extremewreck2000 on Jul 11, 2024 10:58:12 GMT
For me, some parts of social media can really trigger my sensitive eyes/ears in ways not good. For example, crap like Lankybox(link goes to The Beak talking about that LB's various warcrimes) would constantly flash a whole lot of images onscreen in absurdly bright colors as a way to get the attention of little kids, but I HATE THAT. I hate it whenever something like that happens because my eyes are sensitive to that crap. I could very well be epileptic, which could be a good reason as to why I can't handle such fast-paced flashy brainrot. Similar atrocities include Max Design Pro, which outright have shorts where FOUR SHORTS PLAY ALL AT ONCE. W H Y
I also have sensitive ears, so some unexpected ear destruction is VERY unwelcome. Sure, I can perhaps find some fun in listening to music that's loud ENOUGH, but too loud & it can result in me noping out.
Dreams are boundless, imaginations are infinite, space is a multi-directional spiral & Akazukin ChaCha is my favorite anime
For me, some parts of social media can really trigger my sensitive eyes/ears in ways not good. For example, crap like Lankybox(link goes to The Beak talking about that LB's various warcrimes) would constantly flash a whole lot of images onscreen in absurdly bright colors as a way to get the attention of little kids, but I HATE THAT. I hate it whenever something like that happens because my eyes are sensitive to that crap. I could very well be epileptic, which could be a good reason as to why I can't handle such fast-paced flashy brainrot. Similar atrocities include Max Design Pro, which outright have shorts where FOUR SHORTS PLAY ALL AT ONCE. W H Y
I also have sensitive ears, so some unexpected ear destruction is VERY unwelcome. Sure, I can perhaps find some fun in listening to music that's loud ENOUGH, but too loud & it can result in me noping out.
Yeah I think I read somewhere that a lot of modern social media works off of "casino design," the "thrill" of slots and refreshing and random chance. Loud, flashy, noisy, tries to hook your attention and keep you on an emotional high (which also applies to the much bigger amount of paid ads, advertisers, recommended merch, "We think you would like" -__- ). It gets hella annoying though.