A statement about the community and my departure.
Mar 18, 2025 19:47:18 GMT
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Post by ziggycashmere on Mar 18, 2025 19:47:18 GMT
Hi everyone.
A few months ago I left the Lost Media Wiki after having been part of it for 6 years. I still occasionally check the forum and the wiki itself but other than that I have entirely ceased participating and left the server permanently. I did this without a statement, hardly even a hint to anyone outside the group that I had befriended over those 6 years. It seems some of the people outside of that group have been wondering what happened to me. Indeed, I did receive a few emails and Discord messages about it. I didn't make a statement because I didn't think my leaving was really something that deserved a statement. I'm just another member, and making a statement makes me look like some sort of self-absorbed asshole. But, here I am. For those you don't know who I am (I don't expect anyone to) I still recommend reading this.
It's a bit of a lengthy post but this summarizes why I left and the specific issues I believe plague this community. Having moderated the place for a year and befriending others that've been here for years, I cannot tell you the stress and annoyance running the place gave us. Thankfully, as I've been told, it seems to have leveled out a bit. But still, I see too many posts online tearing down the community for the wrong reasons. I considered making this a YouTube video and really digging deep, but, I'm tired, and I figured this is good enough. To summarize the points I made in my blog post: stop bitching about people looking for "baby stuff," try searching for what you want yourself, don't search for stuff because people are telling you it's important, and actually lend a hand to the people trying to make this place better. Write an article, take some time to research, actually involve yourself as an archivist instead of a clout chaser. The greatest poison to this community has not been the people looking for nickelodeon bumpers and television logos, it's greed and fame. That's never what we've been about, and I hope more people cut that shit out. I have been told by multiple people that they reason they looked for things like Me and My Friends and anything SpongeBob related wasn't because they were interested in the content, but because they were interested in the thrill of the hunt, because they wanted clout for whatever they found. That's not what this wiki was made for, and I think people are forgetting that.
This community has an incredible potential and there isn't anything else quite like it. To all the mods I worked with: thank you, I think we did everything we could and I'm happy to hear about all the positive changes that have been coming over time. My post isn't to say there aren't good, genuine people in this community. But it's to say there's too many of the opposite, people who are purposefully ignorant or cynical or conceited. Kineko Video themselves, a community that is integral to grassroots film preservation, made a statement on Twitter claiming that baby shows are the problem and tearing down those who want to learn. This isn't the way and just continues to create discourse and vitriol among the people. Teach people who want to learn, correct them when they're wrong, and if they're too stubborn to learn then move on. It's that simple. Maybe I'll come back some time in the future, but it won't be for a while.