It feels strange to say, but it feels like I "stopped" getting older/worldly wise/moving forward in 2016-2017. I just don't chase the latest hype trends much, and I don't chase the latest tech either. I don't care about being "hip" much in fashion or appearance. I take my time getting to the newest entertainment (with the exception of theatrical movies) and resist getting new social media. My smartphone is practically an enhanced Youtube machine. I only replace it with a new phone if I HAVE to. Ditto for computers.
Would love to hear if this "time stopped for me at ____ year" thing has happened to anyone else. If it was a temporary thing, would love to hear about that too. For example, 2018 and 2019 were among the worst years of my entire life, I was STUCK in place and so I think I "artificially" tried to black out those years in my mind, hence going back to the happier times of 2016-17 in my mind. Do you feel left behind, and have you felt that way for years?
2022 after my ex boyfriend pushed me into a break down. It feels like things have slowed down and that I no longer have a passion to , I guess "entertain". Whatever path I walked in life froze.
I'm nothing but a mass of concrete yet my heart is calling my name
Time stopped for me in 2016-2017 when I got married and had my child who has a disability. I suddenly saw the world's inability to accommodate my child's needs and at the same time was beginning to question my religious beliefs and took a step back from everything. Time has slowed down ever since and now that I'm in my 30s I am even less interested in all the trends.
Time stopped for me in 2016-2017 when I got married and had my child who has a disability. I suddenly saw the world's inability to accommodate my child's needs and at the same time was beginning to question my religious beliefs and took a step back from everything. Time has slowed down ever since and now that I'm in my 30s I am even less interested in all the trends.
The world will be barrier free someday. Just keep doing what you can.
I'm nothing but a mass of concrete yet my heart is calling my name
2022 after my ex boyfriend pushed me into a break down. It feels like things have slowed down and that I no longer have a passion to , I guess "entertain". Whatever path I walked in life froze.
Sorry about your experience :/ People suck sometimes, even people who appear "squeaky clean" on the outside are rotting corpse on the inside :/ my ex took SO much from me, some of which I will NEVER get back. Unfortunately, that's why I "remember" 2014-2016 for so much fondness, things started going MAJORLY down in 2017 and absolutely fell apart in 2018-2020 (really into 2021).
Like it felt like I am JUST now recovering. Covid made everything 10X worse for my mental/emotional/spiritual state too. I don't have much energy to chase after the latest tech or trends, my interest in those has barely budged or changed since 2016. I do hope you can find SOME source of strength to move on <3
Time stopped for me in 2016-2017 when I got married and had my child who has a disability. I suddenly saw the world's inability to accommodate my child's needs and at the same time was beginning to question my religious beliefs and took a step back from everything. Time has slowed down ever since and now that I'm in my 30s I am even less interested in all the trends.
Agreed, even my own parent mentioned how they started questioning their own religious/spiritual beliefs in their 50s (after years of firm belief) and got SICK of everyone of telling them that the world was going to end (again), they needed to constantly live in fear because of ____ new antichrist, everything was going to run out and gangs were going to take over, etc. Our family went through SO much and almost no one stepped in to help, to check up on us and make sure we were okay. Little support. It's shocking how much people "care" about things or issues until they have to do ANYTHING, lift a finger to do anything, and then suddenly, "Oh no, sorry, we actually can't help you because _______ (insert lazy, stupid, selfish reason here).
Unfortunately, people have to sometimes get kicked in the teeth to "change" and sometimes THAT doesn't even work.
2022 after my ex boyfriend pushed me into a break down. It feels like things have slowed down and that I no longer have a passion to , I guess "entertain". Whatever path I walked in life froze.
Sorry about your experience :/ People suck sometimes, even people who appear "squeaky clean" on the outside are rotting corpse on the inside :/ my ex took SO much from me, some of which I will NEVER get back. Unfortunately, that's why I "remember" 2014-2016 for so much fondness, things started going MAJORLY down in 2017 and absolutely fell apart in 2018-2020 (really into 2021).
Like it felt like I am JUST now recovering. Covid made everything 10X worse for my mental/emotional/spiritual state too. I don't have much energy to chase after the latest tech or trends, my interest in those has barely budged or changed since 2016. I do hope you can find SOME source of strength to move on <3
Thank you. It really means a lot. I've been slowly getting over the torture he made me endure but, my family and friends taught me to laugh at him. He's not a wolf in sheep's clothing, he's the opposite. Seems big and scary but the moment you barely push back, he freaks out. I don't need to be scared of him anymore. I hope you can feel better too <3
I'm nothing but a mass of concrete yet my heart is calling my name
Tech wise, culture wise, or just a "personal feeling?" Or can you even define it? I'm personally adverse to newer tech (I refuse to use AI/ChatGPT or get a TikTok for example). I didn't get a Smartphone until much later in life, and almost exclusively used it as a Youtube and text messaging device for a good while. And desktop computer all the way if I'm home!
Interesting, how so if you don't mind me asking? I love seeing people's "nostalgic" setups on Tumblr, where they decorate like their room is still back in 2000, 2004, 2008, or whathaveyou.
Post by purplemermaid on Sept 14, 2024 7:36:13 GMT
2019 to onwards. I am now in my mid-twenties and I never got to enjoy my early twenties. I spent those years slaving away at a job I despise just to support my family.
Aside from job. Dysfunctional family, toxic online relationships, and internet addiction made my mental health spiral.
I am hoping 2025 is the start of a revival era for me but I am having my doubts.
</div> All of the above, I suppose. I can't really definite it very well.
I was always the weird girl who marched to the beat of their own drum and just did their own thing. I never cared about being "with it", even when I was kinda sorta in sync with what was current. I was listening to old-school "Boomer" music from the 1960's and 1970's even when I was a kid in the very late 1990's and early-mid 2000's, and I still am into that kind of music even in my early thirties.
Maybe it was due to being an only child of a single father household or maybe it was due to my neurological and mental issues.
My Dad was a good guy who always did his best to instill a good sense of self-esteem and individualism within me (and I thank him for that, because otherwise I'd be even more of a mental trainwreck than I already am with the shit I've had to deal with in my life over the years. But that's a whole other rabbit hole)
</div> Media and culture just got worse after 1999 as far as I'm concerned.
1999 is even stretching it since I frankly hate a lot of 90s music and media. I'd rather leave it at 1989 but the Dreamcast was released in 1999 soooooo
</div>Yah things go up and down (in terms of animation, see the 70s and lots of 90s live action film wasn't the best), and it's nice that we have indie animation, film, music, etc. so easily accessible (to compete with mainstream Hollywood) but much of "modern media" doesn't interest me. I get that businesses have to make money to survive, but still. Even in the HIGHLY commercialized 80s, there was so much creativity, innovation, new ideas, etc. Today? Sequels, remakes, reboots, to the extreme. And that general optimism of mid-late 90s products, yeah it was unrealistic but I still am not fond of so much of the cynicism/sarcasm/etc of modern media.