Hot Take Thread

There's a difference between a s**y woman character and a woman character who's sole purpose is to be a s** object. The first part is fine in an adult's show, but the second part is what people are actually complaining about. For example, look how Asian women used to be portrayed as in American movies, and how women singers and dancers are forced or pressured into selling their bodies in order to be famous. Even I have to actually search for an anime that doesn't have s** in it, it's way too common nowadays.

You don't have to censor the word sex here. It's not against the rules to say it or anything.

To be fair i've seen Asian women portrayed that way in non-American movies too, also plenty of female singers choose to own their sexuality and show off their bodies on purpose, nobody forced them into it(I.E. the Pussycat Dolls).

I just censor it because of my personal preference. Also I heard it happened to Selena Gomez after she left Disney. I heard she was pressured to do it and regretted it afterwards

I've never been into Fear Factor or The Rogen Podcast so I never would've made the comparison.

Thank you!


Finally, I found someone else who agrees. Not gonna lie, sometimes it's hard being a sex-positive cis woman. 


I think a lot of the problem with a lot of the LGBTQ community (quite frankly, it's mostly the L's. They tend to be the meanest towards bi women like me) is that they tend to hyper-politicize themselves and can't just let entertainment be entertainment.

I get why that is a thing, don't get me wrong. A lot of that hyper-politicization began as a  response towards actual problems such as homophobia and misogyny.


But a lot of them tend to really heavily anchor themselves to really hardline radical feminism and that's how you get stuff like the TERF's, secular Puritans like Andrea Dworkin, psychos like Valerie Solanas, or "political lesbians" (aka misandrist straight women who go full femcel because "all men bad" or some shit)

To be fair, I am for the most part VERY quiet. Like, I will usually NEVER talk for a long while & just be completely alone all by myself. I don't even have any friends that are nearby where I live, I just have you guys & a couple of others spread across a few sites. I know one of them in real life, but otherwise it's just me & the internet, alone in a small room. I usually discuss video games & cartoons, that's mostly about it.

I've more or less become an introvert for years to come. I thought getting a boyfriend would be possible for me, but I feel like that at this point it just isn't happening & that I'll be living alone once I get a home for myself. It'll just be me, truly away from anyone else. It may even mean that I'll talk so little that I slowly start to forget more words. I yearn for the days I wasn't apart of where houses were affordable, that way I could become an isolated being in a couple of months, rarely seeing family members & will probably never see most of the real life friends I once had ever again. At this point, the reality of things is that I was never gonna truly have an audience. I have a YouTube channel, but almost no one watches my videos & honestly I'm just surprised that my channel's overall view count is more than 4,000. Maybe I do have one, but personally it's best that I just see myself as a very tiny cult icon of counterculture & have my real life self be an almost complete unknown to the rest of the world. Be the average Joe no one ever knows about, no one ever sees & no one ever hears of. Basically a person that very few people will ever believe existed at any point. Then again, birth certificates exist, so it won't go THAT far, but still.

I know that it sounds a bit wild, but honestly that's how I feel. If I'm not ever getting no boyfriend, then I'd much rather just be alone. Get that house some soundproof stuff so that I can't be heard by a lot of people & don't bother getting a microphone whenever I record videos where I do talk because I don't like talking loudly & again, so I don't get heard.